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Originally Posted by Truth in Ruin
As a NON, I don't get the sensational excitement for someone new, or special in my life. You know? Like when you fall in love, and have the happiest feelings of excitement. I can and do fall in love, but I don't get as excited about it. So as a result, I'm kind of jealous in a way, because the in love feelings I get are not quite as intense. I'm truly unable to put someone on a pedestal. It would be a beautiful feeling if I could feel that way about someone. So I guess that would be another benefit you have.. that feeling you can get about someone.
I apologize if I'm having trouble explaining myself, but I hope you can understand what I'm trying to say.
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I understand!! What you said about being a NON and not experiencing the same intense fall in love feelings made me realize that that is part of why I always end up wondering and worrying where my intensity goes in the love department after a while. I am not supposed to have that in the first place! Lol. All joking aside, it is helping me to put mine into some perspective and know that it's okay that those feelings won't stay that way and that it isn't necessarily an indication that something's wrong with the relationship (that maybe I am not in love anymore). Look at the bright side, Truth ... you cannot miss what you never had.
And I will try to be grateful that it has been a part of my life. . .