
Jan 01, 2014, 11:49 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2013
Location: Lincoln, NE
Posts: 962
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Originally Posted by PeachCream22
It's been a month of no contact after his outburst. He suddenly sends a message via my best friend through facebook, because he could not contact me, (he forgot he was the one who blocked me, and he told my friend I blocked him, this is hilarious and annoying) wishing me well, and apologising for all that he has done. Also asked if there was anything he could do to make things right. My friend thought it was harmless and wouldn't hurt me in any way, so she passed the message. I just replied saying I don't know how to feel about that and that there should be no harm in accepting an apology. I felt pissed at so half-hearted an apology, using my friend as a messenger, forgetting that he blocked me, and that he could've texted me himself. But he might have deleted my number, but he didn't. Texted me a day later, wishing we could have a new start for 2014, and be all friendly and wishing me happy new year, to take care and stay safe. Just replied with thanks and a you too.
I don't know how sincere this is. But I guess I'm just asking, what am i supposed to do? Don't think too much about the messages? Why is he still contacting me? I'd like him to shut up and get lost, but it's not my nature to be so mean. But don't expect me to get all happy and friendly when he's around..
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Do nothing. This sounds like control to me. He's wanting to keep you in his web. I'd say nothing in return and be done with it.
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