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Originally Posted by Asiablue
Our relationship has been healing but it has caused so many other problems for me.
Can you expand on this? What problems is it causing you? Is it the worry that comes with the attachment?
When you contact her out of session, is it always conversation focussed on you or does she contact you first for general chat?
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Yes, the problem is the attachment. She is the one who diagnosed me with an attachment disorder, yet she is harboring an attachment. It had gotten to the point where it literally makes me sick at times.
She has never actually contacted me first but in sessions she always mentioned that she thought about checking up on me but wanted me to initiate contact since I have issues reaching out to people. There was one weekend she lost her phone and she panicked about losing phone numbers so she accessed her contacts through the cloud on her computer and she saved her son's number, her friend's number, and mine...she said "that's all I needed".
Her reasoning was she wanted to be accessible if I needed her. She works 12 hour days pretty much Monday through Friday I'm just one out of so many clients.
It's just confusing.
-Hope