This is so difficult for you and it is not as easy as just moving in because there are many complication here, you are attached to her which is perhaps the most difficult thing to walk away of. Also you are healing but also being harmed unintentionally by a well meaning and kind therapist.
The question is I suppose is this keeping you stuck in this space or is it helping you with your relationships in real life and is she your only support still?
Has transference ever been brought up by either of you?

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