Thread: It's too hard.
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Old Jan 02, 2014, 02:40 PM
lynn808 lynn808 is offline
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Originally Posted by jean17 View Post
I don't want to play anymore. Can I go home now? I'm in DBT and I know that I should be grateful, but I feel like it's just another thing that I have to either endure or run away from. I thought today on my way home from Group that I'll do the exercises, but I'm not going to change my personality. Why & who thinks that that is even possible? I feel so overwhelmed. I just want to be left alone. Isn't therapy supposed to make life better?
Hey Jean,
I always thought therapy was the hardest part....it made me look at myself and question me more.....I don't think the therapy itself makes you feel better...I hope that it has always helped me to become stronger and better able to handle what life throws at me... Sometimes the few days after therapy are the hardest too....as the mind tries to wrap around a new thought or hope....or the idea that is stuck at that point... I try to think of it as intense schooling.....and your learn days worth in an hour...takes days to process all that....relax and let the mind work on it... find something to relax you...candles...music... a walk... a swim....a book.....do something with your body while your mind is busy.... Good luck and let me know if you need anything....Will always be available to chat with you ....Keep the faith!!!

Last edited by lynn808; Jan 02, 2014 at 02:41 PM. Reason: clarification
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