"it seems you really don't want to be a pain in the neck to others and do great effort to make everyone happy but yourself, but you can't make all them like you. People don't love you as a favour, it comes naturally. And you don't have to be kind here with me. I'm not doing you a favour and you don't have to protect me" (earlier in therapy).
It is not insensitive at all actually, but at the time I took it as "people don't necessarily have to like you"(which is true, thank God). Now I see what she meant. This is the only thing I can recall, if I really have to think of one.