hi okcomputercrazy
sounds like you know where the anxiety is stemming from. maybe some daily affirmations of feeling safe and secure in the relationship would help. telling yourself it is related to your past is the best way to relieve the anxiety. collecting your pro list as to why the relationship is the best ever would be helpful for those times as well. welcome to psych central. you will find that we have several forums where you can post your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome.