Boopsie, I the truth would be known the vast majority of men are in the same boat. I find the "art" excuse a bit flimsey, but what is he going to say. I'm sure your husband loves you and would never cheat. Fact of the matter is Men like to look. Admire the female body. Women think that it is because the man "wants her" instead of you. Not true at all. It is natural instinct. You may want to cut him a bit of slack on this one. If you put up a fuss about it, he will find another way to "look." From a males standpoint, at least he's not spending a bunch of money at strip clubs. I think you would be shocked if you knew the real statistics on how many married men "look." Sincerely, Cajun