Sexual preoccupation? That seems...strange. I don't know what would be considered "preoccupation"...I would argue most people are at least some degree preoccupied with sexual matters. Being twenty, you're probably "preoccupied" with it about as much as one would expect at that age, which...lol being right there with ya age wise, I know how that goes.

In line with age, I think dumb sex joke and innuendos are pretty expected. I make them all the time myself among the guys, so...I don't see how that would be "abnormal" or anything.

I don't think your "sexual preoccupation" is anything out of line aside from a factor of age...I'm not going so far as to call your T flat out wrong or anything, as that's not my place to do so, but...you're twenty. Sexual thoughts is pretty front and center around that age.

As far as the sites go...just curious. 4chan, Reddit? Only two I can think of personally where you can find both average stuff and porn just sort of...there.

But lastly...good for you for viewing virginity the way you do. I was going to offer that view before I read the parentheses, but you beat me to it. That's a healthy view for you to have, and I'm proud of you for it.

Hugs,
Harley

PS: I had forgotten...my Pokemon friend code is probably floating around Gamefaqs, so I'll PM you that in a bit.