When I was a child I went to a ASD school and then when I went to standard schools I was in special ed classes until I got into high school, but had disability accommodations (I still have them for college). Being in the ASD school was a lot of fun and I really enjoyed it compared to the standard schools when I was growing up. I agree with rosska about possibly telling your son. My mother never told me which made my life so much harder than it needed to be.