When was the first time you had those thoughts? Personally l think the question is too big. Ask your T when was the first time they ate chocolate, what did they first experience about its taste and texture and see if they can give a clear answer

l think it is easy to think our T's are always right and the fault in any difficulty we have in sessions, lies with us. In fact the relationship is about an interaction and sometimes IMO it is down to T asking the wrong question. Soup