What turns me on is turning a woman on. Being able to anticipate and DO what she likes even before she's aware of exactly what that is is a major rush... Seeing a woman respond to her arousal is amazing. I love making a woman feel like a vixen. YOW! I guess I've always been turned on by being able to satisfy a woman before I allow myself to surrender to her "charms"... Yeah, big-time. Pssssst! Red Hot!