Is he a junior psychologist in the making? Or maybe just a guy on a power trip? He was talking about personal stuff so you let down your guard, THEN he judges you?? Did you ask for his opinion?? You could just feel mad that he wasnt being honest, that he held himself above you, that maybe he manipulated you. I dont think you asked for his help or diagnosis. You were openly sharing with him. He was doing his homework on you. Id feel a little angry, a little tricked. You were aware of what was going on. Youre just not used to confronting, but you blame yourself instead?