thank you for responding. i'm ok,thank you for asking. everyone is so sick of hearing negative answers that they don't ask anymore so ... I'm fine thanks, you? My daughter and I had a screechfest the afternoon after I freaked and at least she recognized that it happened. She is 16 and knows everything you know, including that i am faking this. No, I'm not. I feel bad that she had to see an;other one. that makes 3 she's witnessed. in the past 4 years. I guess that could be worse. Are you one of the "doctor" people on this site or just another person? I appreciate you taking the time to answer my post. thanks.