oh there is normal.. dunno why people with MI always come with "whats normal?" normal for me is someone that has equilibrium in their life and have skills to deal with their problems, therefore dont have MI. of course a person can have some "trais" of some MI but that doesnt achieve the level of MI, is just considered a flaw.
what u are doing in this thread is viewing a BPD person as a whole. OF COURSE u have good qualities. u arent the BPD. there is a PERSON PLUS BPD. and the BPD consists in symptoms of things that are wrong and need to be changed/controlled!
if we only had the BPD we would be screwed.
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Originally Posted by Maranara
There is no such thing as "normal". You can take the healthiest person out there and dissect their behavior and find "traits" to MH issues. Some of us just have more than others. It's important to look at the positive side, of anything. Nothing and no one is completely bad or completely good. That's the black and white thinking talking.
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