I really like this guy....I just recently posted about him. He is nice, understanding, soo caring, he never triggers me, he is SO patient, and he wants to help me. He has told me he likes me too, so that's cool. But nothing in life is that easy.

There are three of us that live here. Me, him, and another girl. She likes him too....REALLLLLY likes him. But he doesn't want to date her. He likes me .-. But I don't think you can understand how much she likes him...I feel SO bad for liking him. I moved out once so I wasn't in the way, but ended up having to come back. I really don't want to hurt her. He says not to run, which is all I want to do. He says he has talked to her about them not dating, but still. I feel so guilty to like him, AND we all live together so I feel like I'm intruding.

How do I handle this? He won't even touch me when she's around so we don't hurt her, but what kind of way is that to live? It's REALLY hard on me with things this way. Cuz she follows us EVERYWHERE so we get almost no time together. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells. I feel like I am hiding this secret and I don't like that feeling. I just really have been needing affection lately, too. I feel really lonely and unwanted, and this doesn't help.

What is the right thing to do here? I feel like I'm wrong no matter what.....like somehow she has a "claim" on him...she may have lived here before me, but I've liked him for a long time now :C UGH this whole thing gives me a headache!