Thread: It's too hard.
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Old Jan 04, 2014, 07:04 AM
jean17 jean17 is offline
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Originally Posted by Wingnut13 View Post
How long have you been in DBT? My T wants me to start DBT soon and I have been worried I will not be able to handle it,especially the group part. Changing your personality is part of it?
Hope it gets better for you real soon.
I've been trying it for about 3 months. The group part was a big worry for me too, but my group is just me and 5 other women and two therapists. I found it immediately safe and comfortable. I hope you will too.

But it is challenging. Every 2 weeks you get a new skill and then you have to document how you practiced it for the next meeting. Then you all share how it went for you. I find it is asking me to do things that I have, because of social anxiety and GAD, spent all my life and energy, avoiding. So now I'm supposed to change? I don't know. Maybe if I really work with it, I will.

I do hope that you find it helpful. I don't think it can hurt. We need all the help we can get. Every other week you have a private session with your therapist so you can get their help with the homework and anything else that is bothering you.
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Wingnut13
Thanks for this!
lynn808, Wingnut13