I always love seeing my T - she is so sweet and funny and wears cute outfits and although its her job she really tries to actually "get" what i'm saying. But sometimes I get "moody" and just don't want to go (before recently I always did though). In those cases its usually because I just don't feel like talking. T now knows that my "stand offishness" has nothing to do with her and is more reflective of my mind frame on that day. Before she realized my push/pull, she once made a comment to me on a shut down day (where I had absolutely nothing to say) about how she felt like "sometimes I like her, and other times I don't. Today, I feel like you don't and that's okay."