As long as there are no other minors in the house it should not be a problem. No one can make you press charges. I was raped a long time ago and when I started T and we talked about it I made sure to let her know firsts and foremost I had no intention of pressing charges, and I had no desire to confront this man. If she couldn't respect that then we would just not deal with it or keep it vague. she agreed it was my life and if I didn't want to press charges I didn't have to and she would never press me to do what I didn't want to do. Things have been great. She stuck to her word.