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Originally Posted by Autumn Skies
Hi again,
And so what do you think is the source of that fear? Hypothetically, what do you think would happen, or what it the very worst that could happen, if it turned out that you were "really just being in a victim mentality"?
Besides the fear, maybe your superego is causing anxiety. Do you think there is guilt involved? I have major guilt issues, so I hope I'm not projecting now.... Why the pressure to move on and let go? I don't think that is victim mentality. Don't forget, people don't have to be blamed.
Let yourself be angry at people, but then think of cause and effect.
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If I was playing the victim, it would mean I'm very displeasing to my T and wasting his/my time. Also, that I am a crappy person
writing that out loud sounds bad, I know, but I think that's the conclusion I would come to.
I'm not sure about the guilt. I do feel guilty a lot but I'm not sure how to place it. It's related to a lot of things. One though, is feeling guilty for being a "difficult" client and not getting better faster or enough or doing it right. Sorry but I don't know what you mean by your last sentence. What do you mean by think of cause and effect?