Interesting.....my horse vet 10 years ago went onto the Christian dating site & found a wonderful mate he got married to after a very bad marriage & divorce.......so I left my H 6 years ago....still NOT divorced...at first it was my protection against dealing with any men in my life....other than nice friends.....now I am working on the divorce (this last year.....I'm slow at getting all the information together being gone for 6 years & having left everything when I left 2100 miles away).

I am sorry you got sucked into this scheme......sometimes we have to learn the hard way.....but thanks for sharing so hopefully others won't & for validating those of us even farther for the values we hold against intimacy outside of marriage.

My values have always been....anything intimate no matter what is within marriage......I will hold to those values until the day I die. I can live without male attention....it's NOT what makes me who I am....I learned that as a senior in high school back in 1970.....this just validates my feelings on this even more.