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Old Jan 04, 2014, 03:59 PM
newlyborn0372013 newlyborn0372013 is offline
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Originally Posted by unlockingsanity View Post
Maybe she wasn't feeling well and was trying to push through the day, but in the end she just couldn't do it.

What would have been worse? Her cancelling or you having a session where her focus wasn't squarely on you?

It always sucks to miss a session, but it's also an opportunity to learn how to use self-soothing strategies.
Yes, my mature logical side of me knows that this is exactly the case with T. But lately, most of the time, just being able to touch bases, and connect even if not completely focused on me, helps alot. I think thats the wounded side of me that wants to just take what she can get.