I have a 12yr old girl who has decided that she needs to sass any adult who speaks to her. She talks back to me and my mom the worst. We have a squirt bottle that we use on the cats and I thought that since she says that a slap on the face is child abuse, that I could use the spray bottle on her. One squirt for each time she talks back. It is only water. What do you all think? She also has an "I don't care" attitude. All she cares about is doing what she wants and when she wants. She has been in a day treatment program for 8 days in October, and then spent 5 days inpatient last month. Both were for writing suicide notes. She sees her t this coming Monday, the 6th, I don't know if I should bring this up to her t or not. I am at my wits end with her.