If we don't all speak out when we've been taken advantage of then the perps of our pain get away with inflicting wounds on more victims! I was in a LTR with a man who asked me to marry him. One day without snooping I came across a bunch of stuff on the computer where he was downloading photos and sex chats he was having with women on the internet. I also found a calendar that had appointments to meet women in local motels. I told everyone we both knew about it because I wanted them all to know what kind of person he is. There were some I told who suggested I should avoid the embarrassment and NOT tell. I didn't do anything wrong so I didn't have anything to be embarrassed about! Bless you for speaking out!