Thanks guys. A thing happened here and we ended up putting everything out in the open and talking it all out. Then from there I decided I was going to go for it, no I don't want to hurt her, but it's not my fault if he likes me and not her. I feel like that's kinda selfish, but I feel like I deserve to be happy (which sounds selfish too xD) She isn't really handling this all well...but I did the best I could. I've liked people who didn't like me back before, it sucks, but I've survived.