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Originally Posted by Angel of Bedlam
I have in fact told him I don't like how I look in the video, and he says I'm nuts. I know he loves me, and I don't think he'll leave me for weight gain, my problem comes from thinking he'll be disappointed in who he ended up with. I guess I just want to please him so badly.
I am back on my diet that I was on when I dropped the 50 lbs, so I suggested after it's gone again, we do another. I think I'll feel better.
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My dear woman,
He didn't "end up" with anyone that he doesn't specifically WANT to be with. I know that I'm preaching to the choir here, but, damn. I suspect that if you just be you - warts, freckles, bad breath, knock-knees and all, he will Love you JUST as you are. In fact, what WOULD disappoint him is if you decided to be something you weren't.
Anyway...
But yeah... I know exactly what you mean about the weight thing. I'm a have to sneak up on the scales anymore, so... yeah. But ya wanna know something? Well, I don't like weighing a little less than a small dinosaur and I feel self-conscious too. But... there are times when I don't feel very good about myself and I'll say to my wife, "I honestly don't see what you see in me and I certainly can't in a million years understand how you could possible Love me." And... being that she is who she is, she tells me that she Loves me. There is no why or wherefore or any reason. Love doen't work that way. It just IS. And the funny thing is I already know that because it's how I feel about her.
So... You have a man that Loves you dearly. That's the only thing that matters. Love just IS.
Oh... what he says about you being "Nuts"? Well, I don't know that I'd go that far. How about "Hahahahahahahahaha!!!! You think WHAT? You don't think you look good in the video? Hahahahaha! That's a good one! What a funny girl you are!!! You WERE joking weren't you?"
Um, truly, you really DON'T need to wait to do another...
So!
I'm sending your all kinds of sparkles, unicorns and happy thoughts,
Dan