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Originally Posted by DrSkipper
I've known one of my best friends since high school, and from the very beginning since I've met her fiance I've had a crush on him. Lately I've been really jealous of her because I think he deserves better. Lately (actually, most of the time), she's just been a complete pain in the *** with everything and they argue and bicker a lot even when I'm there. I guess I just need to vent because I know he loves her and that they'll be together, but my feelings for him won't go away. I flirt with him playfully and he flirts back, but he knows I'd never try and steal him away from his fiance, and I won't, but I feel lost. Maybe it's just because I've never had a boyfriend or had sex, but I'm concerned about my feelings for him because I'd feel bad if I got in between them and wish I didn't feel this way.
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This is an area to tread very carefully. I can understand feeling attracted to someone who is taken, but you CANNOT intervene (I don't think you would anyway). As someone who had been through the ups and downs in a relationship, I know that there have been periods where we've been under stress and I've been nothing but a b**** to my boyfriend. I would refrain from judgment on that.
If it were me, I'd limit my contact with her fiance as much as possible. Give yourself some breathing room from him and you'll find that most those flirty feelings will pass. I'd be HEARTBROKEN and PISSED if I knew there was flirting (even harmless flirting) between my bff and my fiance.
It was a good idea to vent about the situation here. I understand your feelings and hope what I said helps.
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