I know, I've upset my bff because of the flirting and the fiance just flat out told the both of us "fiance, you're introverted and soft spoken, and you never speak up when you have something on your mind, drskipper, you're naturally outgoing, extroverted and flirtatious but only because you're curious about sex and that is your outgoing personality, and fiance should know that what she's doing is not to take me away from her." So the flirting has been addressed out in the open between the three of us.

And the problem with staying away with fiance is that bff can't stand to be alone without fiance--she has panic attacks if they're separated for too long or freaks out if he doesn't immediately return or picks up the phone. The two have a very strange dynamic and I've known that for a while.

The problem with me is that I don't get rid of crushes easily. All of my crushes have lasted several years between them, hence I've liked him for the past year and a half.

Flirting is just part of who I am. Even tonight I flirted with my best friend saying I was going to make out with her. I naturally flirt with everyone, that's just how I joke with people, I enjoy talking dirty with people and sometimes it gets me in trouble.

How do you get over someone? It's hard to do that when I think the person would be better with me even though it's probably not for the best.