I just turned 21 and figuring out what alcohol does to me physically and mentally/emotionally. I do great with rum, I do fine with vodka...tequila...I'm not so sure. When I went to the Embassy Suites with my family, I had 4 glasses of tequila-based drinks and felt sick to my stomach. Tonight I had patron and had three shots plus a smirnoff ice because I forgot that mixing drinks makes you sick and was laughing my *** off hysterically but I also had a mild stomach ache but nothing serious, likely because of the smirnoff ice.

I have a few concerns and this is going to get real complicated real quick: My best friend and I decided on sleeping over at her house tomorrow and get ****faced and she said she'd make out with me tomorrow. I'm fine with this but I also want to make sure that she's okay with this when she's sober, and I want to make boundaries before we do that too and not sure how to go about setting those boundaries. I'm worried we might go crazy and have sex because the tequila made me crazy horny and I think in the moment I might go for it, but I've never had sex and she's never had sex with a girl. I'm not sure how to be honest about this and ask her "so, were you serious about making out? And what would happen if we got so drunk we had sex?" Like, I would want to know before hand if we were making out or having sex or not because in the moment it would be hard to make a decision, obviously. I'm fine with the ****faced part, I'm more worried about unplanned romance.

And second, this might be a type of alcohol that makes me sick. I honestly have no idea. I've only drank till I puked once, and I've heard tequila makes you do crazy things more than any other alcohol, my mom says it does crazy things to her, and there's even the song "Tequila Makes Her Clothes Fall Off", so I'm wondering what tequila does for other people and what other people's limits were. We're planning on buying the little bottle of patron.