Normal is subjective... Normal is different for everyone. It is shades of gray. It is not black and white... good or bad... right or wrong.
Sorry Dan if you mistook what I meant by normal. Be careful how you take people's words.

nor·mal
ˈnôrməl/
adjective
adjective: normal

1. 1.
   conforming to a standard; usual, typical, or expected.
   "it's quite normal for puppies to bolt their food"
   synonyms:usual, standard, ordinary, customary, conventional, habitual, accustomed, expected, wonted; Moretypical, stock, common, everyday, regular, routine, established, set, fixed, traditional, time-honored
   "they issue books in the normal way"
   
   noun
   noun: normal; plural noun: normals
   1.
   the usual, average, or typical state or condition.
   "her temperature was above normal"