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Old Jan 05, 2014, 11:50 AM
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Red Panda, part of the problem is that I work long hours (10-12 hours/day) and have a one hour commute each way to work. I'm worn out by the end of the day. I can't figure out a way around that. Also, my job entails giving to others all day. I don't have anything to give by the end of the day. hmmm, maybe I could investigate something like an exercise class where I could do for me and meet other people....

Perna, you might be right about it being an aging thing. I remember Mom talking about this. She never had a solution either.

Pfrog, tying what you said with what Perna said, maybe this is something I just have to learn to live with.

Been thinking about this since I posted. I remember having similar feelings toward the end of my marriage. My husband was abusive and grew distant. I remeber telling my therapist I hated being so lonely all the time.

I wonder if I am looking for something outside myself that I should be looking for on the inside?
Thanks for your input everyone.