Thank you everyone, I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only one. Seeing that you have all experienced this too has made me think of this as less of a disaster. Your examples of how you "confronted" your Ts in the past definitely made me see that this is something that I can and should bring up. I have difficulty with conflict and assertiveness in my everyday life, so it will be helpful to practice it too. Boy, is therapy hard sometimes... I would have never thought that I could have this kind of problem with my T when I was first starting. But I guess these small conflicts happen in all relationships.