I know what you mean about getting annoyed when people contact you. I don't like people pestering me and I prefer texting to calls. I have a friend who really annoys me because he asks what I've been doing lately and it always looks to him like I don't do anything. Another thing that annoys me is how little other people have in common with me. I feel like 90% of everything that other people follow, I am either not interested in or haven't heard of.