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Originally Posted by Thorn Bird
I am sure he has NPD hence the rages belittling emotional abuse, physical abuse lying, blaming etc and his childhood suggest that this is a PD. However there are some very good times and all I want to do is to understand so that the bad behaviour can be minimilised and cause less destruction. I just thought by asking those of you with NPD I would be able to understand a little of what it feels like etc, - I mean no harm to anyone
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You seem to be deliberatly missing the point hun. No amount of understanding his pathology will make him treat you better. He abuses and cheats because he can.
Like I said, don't fix it if it ain't broke.
Buut live in denial if that's what works for you.
Instead of wasting your precious therapy time and money on discussing how to modify your actions to minimize abuse, why not use the time constructively and figure out why you are so hell bent on staying with a man that mistreats you.