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Originally Posted by Thorn Bird
I am sure he has NPD hence the rages belittling emotional abuse, physical abuse lying, blaming etc and his childhood suggest that this is a PD. However there are some very good times and all I want to do is to understand so that the bad behaviour can be minimilised and cause less destruction. I just thought by asking those of you with NPD I would be able to understand a little of what it feels like etc, - I mean no harm to anyone
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Why are you assuming that because someone is an asshole they have NPD. That's very offensive I think. You say "hey, this person is absolutely horrible, you guys are like that! Can I have some advice on how to deal with it even though I don't know you at all and just compared you to some horrible excuse for a human being?"
You want my advice, leave the person if they're that bad.