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Old Jan 05, 2014, 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted by SoupDragon View Post
l checked out another T without telling my current T. The new T "slapped my hand" when he discovered l hadn't terminated old T and said it was like having an affair. l felt ashamed, although part of me struggles to see what was so wrong with it.
Now that's just wrong... Hope you didn't stay with him/her. T is a professional I'm paying. Nothing more nothing less. When I was looking up other Ts online I told my T but just because I wanted to discuss why I feel the need to do so. His feelings re this never entered my mind/our convo.