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Originally Posted by tesseract49
I have a friend who really annoys me because he asks what I've been doing lately and it always looks to him like I don't do anything.
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You know something, I was talking to my best friend a few weeks ago and actually told her that that question is my most hated question in the world!! My life is very much about routines. I do things I enjoy, and I tend to do the same things everyday. So when people ask that question, I just wish a hole would open and swallow me because my reply is always something along the lines of "oh you know, the usual". Then I feel judged because I haven't been out running marathons, or jumping out of aeroplanes or something. It's a horrible question for those of us who live by routines. Just because other people derive enjoyment from doing different things, doesn't mean we all do.
@Betty1Boop
There are quite a lot on that site within range of me. The major problem with that, is I don't enjoy meeting people I don't know. I have major social anxiety issues, so much so that even when I'm meeting with friends that I know well I get anxious and a lot of the time pull out at the last minute to avoid it.