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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
What do you think about my plan to forward the following to T? Not whether to send it or not, but the wording? Any feedback would be great.
"At the nsk of putting myself into the irritating client category, l am writing to let you know l will not be attending the session on Tuesday.
You have not turned "all bad" yet l am experiencing hurt and know l will be unable to talk to you about it. l can't stand another session sitting there not being able to be open and therefore l do not consider it in my interest to attend at the moment.
l do respect what you have previously said about not just stopping and when l feel more settled and less overwhelmed l will get in touch to arrange another session if you have the time capacity at that point.
l acknowledge that this is less than the agreed 7 day notice and l will forward the money to you"
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Soup.... oh I remember all of these feelings... actually I think we used to discuss this about 2 years ago...(not sure its the same T for you now)... I know you have to do what you have to do but maybe you should go back and read your journals if you kept them or old posts and remember how it felt before when you used to just stop... and then when you would call to go back.... I'm not saying that in the end taking a break isn't the best thing or stopping and finding another T...
I'm just saying to think twice about your agreement with your T.... you made it for a reason and perhaps you should honor it just because you made it.. go and discuss it with T by writing a letter about how you feel and handing it to him.. and decide then to tell him you want to take a break...
These are just my opinions and only you know what is best for you to do.