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Originally Posted by Asiablue
that's right Freewilled, we need to feel in control and we've done that in our personal relationships but in the therapy room it's like we have no control cos they have what we need. Terrifying.
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Yeah... They have what we need but...my T made it sound like I have to learn how to give what I need to myself. More self-care. Or something, I dunno. But I need someone to give a **** about me. To be loved. I can love myself but I want T to love me but he won't
plus then I don't want to need it and I get mad at him for it all. Ugh. So confusing, huh?