
Jan 05, 2014, 08:14 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2013
Location: East Bay, California
Posts: 61
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Originally Posted by Shy Introvert
Wow, sorry to hear about all that! You have to be extra careful when opening up to people online as there are lots of predators out there! Especially when it comes to online dating!
Thank you for the warning, even if you hadn't said this I already deeply feel a sense of shame and remorse for this, too bad I had to do it first...I think I might be a fool, but, I'm not going to be a fool for doing the same thing again!
I don't mean to scare you, but that creep could post it up online and show your pics to his friends. He sounded like a real player. He knew just what to say to make you feel wanted and needed.
Thats what I think too, I just feel kinda sorry for the others out there who are going to through the same thing I went through. I hope more women have wised up and don't do this...thats the best outcome for this whole situation, if maybe other women or men too I suppose, could keep from making such a shameful mistake.
They enjoy stringing along vulnerable women to make themselves feel better about themselves. Pathetic! It's always best to take a few months to really get to know a person over the phone, and most importantly, in person!
I guess that is what it comes down to, I sure would like to re-iterate that there is a feeling trap-that there must be something about ME that makes me special...but thats so not true...just lies...and more lies...what would have been special would have been me saying, NO...and get lost.
Please take my advice and be more careful from now on. If he refuses to talk on the phone or meet in person, stop talking to him right away as that is a major red flag. If one's actions don't match their words, delete him from your life and move on.
Good ADVICE...I would add, just never send any pictures, if they don't live nearby, they probably ARE trolling for a long distance thing that meets exactly the kind of requirements for their games...
If you are tempted to send risque pics in the future, never include your head in the pic! And of course, don't give out to much personal info at once. Ask lots of questions. Often liars will often slip up. I hope this helped!
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Thank you for your suggestions!
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