Im goin threw the same exact thing!, every time I talk to her she takes what im saying as a way to blame her. Has she hurt me?...Ya you bet, and she knows that she has, but I have told her so many times before that I forgave her and now I only want to talk it all out. She misreads everything I tell her as if I blame her all the time. My advice to you and what has been givin to me from others on this site is to give it some time, let things cool down between you and her. As it has been told to me..time heals. I know its hard when you are depressed and you want to talk to her because you confide in her to help you threw it alittle...I felt the same way but just recently I told my self that I couldnt do that anymore...atleast right now and had to work on this my self...so just give it sometime and see what happens. I know it has helped me alot talking to others on this site so take full advantage of what this site has to offer and the people on it as well! If you ever wanna talk, just ask...maybe we can help each other threw our problem, yours seem alot like mine. Good luck!