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Jan 05, 2014, 10:30 PM
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hi there. yess exactly u  i did read the book. and they didnt have sex with me. i wouldnt without a serious relationship. deep down i know what im in but i want to believe otherwise or for them to prove me wrong (if that even makes sense). yep all hey think about is sex. and i dont even know why hey want me, i have no curves... bu guess having a hole is more than enough. thanks for ur reply 
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Originally Posted by Shy Introvert
@The O.P, I'm so sorry to hear about what you've been through! You're not the only one who's head has been messed with though! I went through the same thing a few times, but it only took me one time to never make that mistake again. My ex b.f used me only for sex. I knew that he liked me at the time, but he never asked me out, so I did. I also dumped that loser after I came to my senses.
I was in my early 20's at the time and I never had a b.f before. I was lonely and depressed. I was very naieve to and I had a very low self esteem and I thought that no one could ever love me. I'm married now and although our relationship isn't perfect, I feel that I can trust my husband and rely on him more than most people most of the time.
Anyways, I think that I was the person who mentioned that book by Sherry Argov- Did you read the book? If not, you should as it'll help you understand why guys are the way they are and how to react to them when they try to treat you badly. Men and women are very different people emotionally.
As for that guy, it sounds like he was just using you for sex and that he is just a jerk that doesn't deserve you. Please google how to spot a player and you'll be able to spot them a mile away from now on. If you're meeting guys on here, google how to spot an Internet player as they're a lot sneakier and harder to spot!
I'm sorry to say this, but take it from this 40 something year old.....most younger men are mostly after SEX, NOT a real relationship! Of course, there are some good guys out there who do want a relationship, but just remember, most guys, especially around that age will say or do just about anything to get into your pants. They'll say I "love you" and not mean it, etc.....
I hope that this helped!
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