Depends on the illness, imo.

Let me expand, hit send, too soon...

If two people, were to have their own set of issues, would it matter more, if they could function, communicate, take a solid look at self first, before delving into some emotional roller coaster ride.

Don't many, come with our own pasts, trials, tribulations? It's almost subjective to feel there is one person out there without baggage.

So, even with your own sorrows and wounds, why couldn't there be someone who complements those, in a respectful, loving way?

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