thanks for you all valuable suggestions.. he never had any affairs before we met.. he says that if i trusted him he will be true. how can i trust him? he betrayed me. after lost all my hopes on him completely how can i trust him. is this possible? i fear that still he is talking to that girl. so everyday i fighting him and i ask him" are you using another mobile to talk with her? do you lover her? """ what i should do? my mom says that " if you want him just adjust with him , otherwise leave him " how can i explain my mom about my suituation that we got married without her knowledge.. sometimes he says that if you suspecting me anymore i will have more affairs. he assures that he will never do mistakes. can i trust him? can i accept his mistakes which he did before? how can i forgot the moment which he avoided/cheated me lot?