
Jan 06, 2014, 10:09 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2013
Location: Lincoln, NE
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Originally Posted by Webgoji
As IllegalToilet said, those aspects are AWESOME.
But that said, you have to start with real data. Just because you looked a certain way years ago doesn't mean that was actually better.
How do men react to you? I mean really consider it, not from a cheating perspective, but do guys want to talk to you? Do they hit on you? They're reactions to you will give you a better gauge of how you look than a comparison to a magazine model or an old image of yourself.
My wife is a good example of this. She's the same way, busty with hips and a booty. She smoking hot, but she's always down on how much she weighs, that's she's got this wrong and that wrong and doesn't look good. But when we go somewhere, guys hit on her (even in front of me!), ex-boyfriends want to get back together (yes, the star football player on her college team even) and they send her drinks at the bar. Her image is incorrect as I bet yours is as well.
So in short: - How do men react to you? This can be your basis for logically getting a true image of yourself.
- Begin working on moving the logical, real perspective into yourself by countering your own negative thoughts. When you think, "I'm icky," counter it with, "Yeah, but even the guy at the gas station wanted my number."
Trust me, you're more beautiful than you know, you're just sabotaging yourself.
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I'm gonna try this. The counter thought thing. It'll be hard ar first, but maybe countering every negative with a positive like that will work.
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