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Old Jan 06, 2014, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted by Mattmx View Post
Why are you assuming that because someone is an asshole they have NPD. That's very offensive I think. You say "hey, this person is absolutely horrible, you guys are like that! Can I have some advice on how to deal with it even though I don't know you at all and just compared you to some horrible excuse for a human being?"

You want my advice, leave the person if they're that bad.
I never said he was an asshole - I am just trying to find out more about his PD and to understand and may be even help or not cause triggers etc. I love him despite of his PD. Yes his behaviour can be really bad emotionally and physically - but I think there are reasons for this for he can be so loving attentive and highly intelligent and funny too. Just because some one has a mental problem doesn't mean they should be written off. Would you do that to someone who was physically disabled - there is no difference!
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