You are such a good dad. Your boys are so lucky to have you. I can't imagine what there future would be like if you didn;t do the things you do and care so much.

I understand about you being a peace keeper and giving your ex wife money. It stinks, it is not fair, but you do what you gotta do to keep the peace. You may very well be required by law to give her something anyway. It is better to just give it to her that way she can never say " I didn't receive any support" and you end up having to pay later on down the road. It's not fair and not right but I am glad you are willing to do what is right anyway. It is an extra big sign of good character that you are providing with her with what you may not be required to.

You boys are so lucky and when they grow up and for there own opinions I hope they appreciate all you have done for them. I am sure they will.