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Originally Posted by Thorn Bird
I know I can't change his behaviour but I can learn to understand why he behaves that way - something very bad happened in his childhood and thus he has re created his personality which needs to be perfect and for that needs validation and 'N' supply. Beneath this 'false and perfect self' is a wounded child ashamed of who he is - It is a sad story and may be I cannot fix it or make him self-aware enough to seek help but if I understand as much as I can It helps - at least that is what I think. You say cut your losses I am talking about the man I love - it will break my heart and as I keep saying I love him.
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If you know all of this already, then what else are you hoping to learn? Those are general things related to NPD, and anything else you get will be specific to him and no one here can tell you those answers. It looks like you've already got the answer to your questions.....
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