I'm just jealous and I know I shouldn't be. No, she is not in therapy for anything specific; it's just the way that T is. She doesn't live in my state or maybe I would have tried to see him too! Probably it would be disastrous if my T were like that. I'd want more and more. To me, it's just a fantasy to be part of her life and be invited to her home and meet her family. It won't ever happen. Yet it happened to my friend. It is what it is, I guess.