I have learned to act over the years and that seems to help social situations alot. I suppose you have to act because if I acted how I truly feel around people, they would be offended and think that I'm an awful person. Unfortunately, I am not that good at knowing how the other person percieves me and as a result, I have phrased things in a way that makes people think I am trying to imply something when I'm really not. People read far too much into how you phrase things and your tone of voice in my opinion.